Be Fearless to Be Yourself

 

            One of the biggest cover grabbing stories about women in recent history has been body image and how girl’s and women’s self-confidence is at an all time low. Fat shaming and models gracing the shiny fashion ads all said relatively the same thing: love the skin you’re in and screw the rest. This is hard to do when it is constantly being talked about and when the media doesn’t do anything to support the so-called rally of body acceptance, if anything it seems to be getting worse.

            Ms. Magazine’s blog posted a collection of instances where girls have been getting turned away from attending prom because of judgements of style. For example, Alexis Miller-Wigfall had her dress custom made for prom and looked absolutely fabulous, but was faced with suspension after attending prom because she, “had more boobs than the other girls” according to the assistant principal. In another example, fifteen year-old Gabi Finalyson, was turned away because her dress was deemed too revealing, because it revealed her shoulders. These comments exemplify the problem with these “dress codes" as blatant body shaming

          We wonder how young women navigate their lives to develop a sense of self with the adoration of models in perfect form, sexualization of music, and pressure to be perfect in every way. The internet has forever erased the mystery of the nude form; ankles and shoulders no longer titillate.

Gabi bravely spoke out against her treatment by saying, “Somehow my shoulder’s are sexualized. Like it’s my responsibility to make sure the boys’ thoughts are not unclean.” Well said, Gabi and you are completely right. It has always been put on women to control their sexuality, when in reality we have never had complete control. It takes fearlessness to find yourself. The world would be a better place with individuals instead of clones. 

Camilla Olson

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Camilla Olson designs for the modern professional woman. Camilla Olson worked her way through college at the U of MD Medical School, shifting to industry for 8 years post graduate. Once learning about Wall Street she invested as a VC for 4 years and then made her move to the entrepreneur side of the table, on the founding team of 5 companies, Later she earned her MFA, Fashion & Textile Design from Academy of Art Univ, cum laude. Honors include: designs on the NY Fashion Week Runway; Alumna of the Yr, Best Reinvention, Born: Fairbanks Alaska. B.S. microbiology University of Maryland MBA marketing Fairleigh Dickinson University. Awarded two U.S. patents. MFA fashion & textile design, Academy of Art University